Commentaries on Argentine Tango and Life
by Stephen and Susan BrownPursuing Happiness
28 December 2009 — Stephen Brown
In The How of Happiness, Sonja Lyubomirsky writes:
"If we observe genuinely happy people, we shall find that they do not just sit
around being contented. They make things happen. They pursue new
understandings, seek new achievements, and control their thoughts and
feelings. In sum, our intentional, effortful activities have a powerful
effect on how happy we are, over and above the effects of our set points and
the circumstances in which we find ourselves."
Improvising
28 December 2009 — Stephen Brown
"[Y]ou can't play outside the tune until you can play the tune!" Lee Konitz
The Commonplace and the Remarkable
28 December 2009 — Stephen Brown
"Nothing is so commonplace as the wish to be remarkable." Oliver Wendell Holmes, Sr.
Keeping It in Neutral
30 April 2009 — Susan Brown
In The Personal Credibility Factor, Sandy Allgeier writes:
"Highly credible people make decisions to 'suspend judgement' when considering
another person's perspective. They do this because they are okay with being
wrong—or, at a bare minimum, okay with having their opinions challenged.
This doesn't mean that they don't have passion and strong beliefs. It simply
means that their minds are open to other opinions, even if those are quite different
from their own."
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Technique,
16 December 2011
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Let's Step on the Ground,
7 December 2011
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Proof,
7 October 2011
Gloria y Eduardo:
50 Años con el Tango, 3 July 2011
Mastering Technique,
15 June 2011
Tradition,
30 May 2011
Buying Tango Shoes in Buenos Aires,
30 May 2011
Tango de Salon or Tango Milonguero?,
29 May 2011
Myths About Dancing Tango,
1 May 2011
The Continuing Conflict Over Tango Styles,
17 April 2011
Nuevo Milonguero,
13 April 2011
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9 March 2011
Happy New Year,
1 January 2011
2010 Archive
Carlos Gavito: I Wanted to Dance,
28 August 2010
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7 August 2010
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26 July 2010
Principles, Not Rules,
25 April 2010
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1 January 2010
2009 Archive
Pursuing Happiness,
28 December 2009
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28 December 2009
The Commonplace and the Remarkable,
28 December 2009
Keeping It in Neutral,
20 April 2009
2008 Archive
How We Are Together,
7 November 2008
Egotism or Cluelessness?,
26 October 2008
Wanting What You Want,
26 October 2008
Unskilled and Unaware,
4 October 2008
Who Holds the Key?,
7 September 2008
Remembering,
2 September 2008
Professionalism
and Creativity, 1 September 2008
Chasing the
Steps, 18 May 2008
Everyday
Goals, 8 May 2008
So Much More,
6 May 2008
Taking Control
of One's Own Development, 2 May 2008
Some Thoughts
about Leading, 30 April 2008
Gender Imbalance
in Tango, 24 April 2008
It Takes
Two Minds to Tango, 23 April 2008
Being Original,
22 April 2008
Exploring
Movement, 22 April 2008
Kinesthetic
Sense, 21 April 2008
Troileana,
14 April 2008
Close-Embrace-Style
Tango at a Crossroads?, 12 April 2008
On Style
and Nuevo Tango, 4 April 2008
Seduced by
Tango, 25 March 2008
Argentine
Nights, 18 March 2008
Improvising,
7 March 2008
To Dance
Tango, 21 February 2008
Why He Did
It, 06 February 2008
2007 Archive
Blogging:
Truth or Truthiness?, 26 November 2007
What Is a
Master?, 17 November 2007
Orquesta
Color Tango in Dallas (2), 2 October 2007
Orquesta
Color Tango in Dallas, 20 September 2007
All Things,
24 August 2007
Staying Alive,
23 August 2007
Education,
22 August 2007
Finding Our
Own Tango, 6 August 2007
Tango Is
Simple, 1 August 2007
Who We Were
Meant To Be, 1 August 2007
The Woman's
Role in Tango (2), 1 August 2007
On Perfection
and Heaven, 31 July 2007
Practicing
for Effective Dancing, 31 July 2007
The Woman's
Role in Tango, 26 July 2007
The Embrace
and Tango, 24 July 2007
Open or Close
Embrace?, 24 July 2007
Tango Festivals
and Approaches to Learning, 23 July 2007
Learning
the Structure of Tango, 23 July 2007
The Structure
of Tango, 20 July 2007
Approaches
to Learning and Authenticity, 19 July 2007
Authenticity,
19 July 2007
StepMeisters
Abound, 16 July 2007
Invierno
Porteño, 5 June 2007
Tamango on
YouTube, 26 February 2007
Otoño
Porteño, 12 February 2007
Where to
Buy Tango Shoes in Buenos Aires, 12, February 2007
Illegal File
Sharing Doesn't Affect CD Sales, 12, February 2007
The Greatest
Ideas, 25 January 2007
Headlines
and the Human Body, 24 January 2007
2006 Archive
On Differing
Styles and Overtraining, 17 November 2006
Changes in
the Tango Scene, 9 November 2006
Bridge to
the Tango Videos To Be Discontinued, 6 November 2006
What the
Bleep is Tango?, 9 October 2006
An Interview
with Roberto Alvarez of Color Tango, 8 September 2006
Dancing,
31 August 2006
Argentine
Tango: The Way You Dance It, 16 June 2006
Finding Self-Expression
and Freedom in Argentine Tango, 16 June 2006
North American
Tango Festival Update, 14 June 2006
Evolution,
8 June 2006
Becoming
an Expert, 6 March 2006
Destiny,
14 February, 2006
Knowledge
and Wisdom, 1 February 2006
Tango Workers
or Dancers?, 10 January 2006
North American
Tango Festival Update, 1 January 2006
2005 Archive
Are Disagreeable
People Entertaining?, 30 December 2005
Will Your
Dreams Come True in Buenos Aires?, 21 December 2005
North American
Tango Festival Update, 1 December 2005
Dancing Tango
Boosts Brain Function, 21 November 2005
Familiarity
Breeds Comfort, 21 November 2005
The Music
Is Essential 21 November 2005
Dancing to
the Classics, 21 November 2005
Is Argentine
Tango Changing?, 21 November 2005
The Joys
of Simple Tango, 9 November 2005
Finding the
Best Style of Tango, 2 November 2005
North American
Tango Festival Update, 1 September 2005
Developing
Skills for Social Dancing, 12 August 2005
On Style
and Styles (4), 12 August 2005
The Dance,
10 August 2005
On Style
and Styles (3), 10 August 2005
On Style
and Styles (2), 9 August 2005
On Style
and Styles, 8 August 2005
Seduction
or Imposition? (3), 27 July 2005
Seduction
or Imposition? (2), 27 July 2005
Seduction
or Imposition?, 26 July 2005
Hidden Tango
Conversations, 25 July 2005
Finding Connection
(4), 25 July 2005
Finding Connection
(3), 22 July 2005
Finding Connection
(2), 22 July 2005
Finding Connection,
21 July 2005
Incomplete
Education, 19 June 2005
The Invitation
to Dance in Buenos Aires, 11 May 2005
Resolving
Problems, 11 May 2005
Tango to
Evora (Alternative Tango), 19 April 2005
Why We Dance
Tango, 16 March 2005
Hit and Run
Milonga Through Christo's Gates, 28 February 2005
Tango: The
Spirit of Argentina, 25 February 2005
Cultural
Values and Styles of Argentine Tango, 20 February 2005
Tango Is
(Fill in the Blank), 10 February 2005
Asfalto,
4 February 2005
Roles and
Relationships in Argentine Tango, 1 February 2005
North American
Tango Festival Season Underway, 31 January 2005
Milongas
in Buenos Aires Reopening, 28 January 2005
Being A Follower
on Axis in All Styles, 18 January 2005
Dancing to
the Music (4), 1 January 2005
2004 Archive
Dancing to
the Music (3), 30 December 2004
Dancing to
the Music (2), 20 December 2004
Dancing to
the Music, 17 November 2004
El Arranque
on Tango Fusion and Other Approaches, 10 November 2004
A Tango Festival
during Thanksgiving in Austin, TX, 27 October 2004
Robert Duvall
in Dallas, 27 October 2004
How Am I
Not Myself?, 26 October 2004
Some Tango-Fusion
Music to Consider, 12 October 2004
Bravery,
17 September 2004
Becoming
a Good Tango Dancer (4), 9 September 2004
Becoming
a Good Tango Dancer (3), 8 September 2004
Beginners
Taught by Masters, 7 September 2004
Some CDs
for Learning About Tango Music, 23 August 2004
La Yumba,
20 August 2004
Argentine
Tango Survey, 17 August 2004
The Road
Not Taken, 12 August 2004
Becoming
a Good Tango Dancer (2), 9 August 2004
Becoming
a Good Tango Dancer, 6 August 2004
Excellent
Teachers, 16 July 2004
Art as an
Expression of Oneself, 16 July 2004
Tango Terminology,
15 July 2004
What's New?,
22 June 2004
To Embrace,
13 June 2004
Shall We
Dance?, 10 June 2004
Denver TangoFest
Recap, 9 June 2004
Techno Tango,
3 June 2004
Denver TangoFest
Photos, 3 June 2004
No Right
or Wrong in Tango, 3 June 2004
Stretching
Exercises for Tango Dancers (2), 2 June 2004
Intelligent
Dancing, 2 June 2004
Stretching
Exercises for Tango Dancers, 1 June 2004
Tango Takes
to the Air in Colorado, 1 June 2004
Leading and
Following, 28 May 2004
More on Dancing
at Tango Festivals (3), 28 May 2004
Tango Animation
Online, 26 May 2004
More on Dancing
at Tango Festivals (2), 25 May 2004
More on Dancing
at Tango Festivals, 25 May 2004
Inside the
Dream: Celebrating Women Who Dance Tango, 24 May 2004
Inside the
Dream, 24 May 2004
Dancing at
Tango Festivals, 23 May 2004
The Summer
Tango Festival Season Is Upon Us, 23 May 2004
The Best
Teachers, 23 May 2004
Cliquishness
at Milongas, 19 May 2004
Lao-Tzu on
Leadership, 19 May 2004
Teaching
the Inner Essences of Tango, 18 May 2004
What About
Leading?, 18 May 2004
The Gift
of Tango, 17 May 2004
Following
Doesn't Describe the Role, 17 May 2004
Why Biased
Views Are Self Perpetuating, 15 May 2004
Ultimate
Partnering, 14 May 2004
On Seeking
Heaven Rather than Perfection, 14 May 2004
American,
Argentine and International Tango, 14 May 2004
What Appeals
to Today's Tango Dancer, 13 May 2004
Dancing with
Grace, 13 May 2004
Yin and Yang
of Tango, 13 May 2004
Developing
Ease, 13 May 2004
Dancing in
the Music, 13 May 2004
Dancing on
the Beat, 13 May 2004
Open Architecture
and Tango, 13 May 2004
On Language
and Tango, 13 May 2004
Developing
Mastery, 13 May 2004
Developing
Their Own Style, 13 May 2004
A Tender
Embrace, 13 May 2004
Open Embrace,
Soft Embrace, 12 May 2004
Intensifying
the Experience of Tango, 11 May 2004
Why Goldern
Age Music Still Dominates Milongas, 5 May 2004
The Meeting
of Two Personalities, 3 May 2004
Approaches
to Teaching and Learning Tango, 30 April 2004
Taking Tango
Styles to Extremes, 24 April 2004
Rhuummmp
and Ric Tic, 23 April 2004
Dancing Tango
in Tight Spaces, 13 April 2004
Partitioning
the Dance Floor to Accomodate Different Styles, 12 April 2004
The Sweet
Zone of Tango Rhapsody, 11 April 2004
Nostalgia
for the Bohemian Ideal, 6 April 2004
Tango Chooses
You, 5 April 2004